GETTING THE CONVERSATION STARTED
Most conversations do not begin smoothly on their own. Even among friends, there is often a pause. People are settling in. They are reading the room. They are unsure how deep or light the evening will go.
A thoughtful opening makes all the difference.
Why an Opening Matters
An opening prompt gives the group a shared starting point. It removes the pressure to be clever right away and invites people to show up as they are in that moment. It helps everyone enter the conversation together rather than waiting for someone else to lead.
A shared opening experience can draw in those more reticent to participate and provide moments of quiet for those that typically carry the conversation. It's an equalizer.
Keeping It Approachable
Each hosting kit includes a themed icebreaker activity created for that book and intended to draw the group together and prepare them for a meaningful discussion. We have found that inserting a short, thoughtful activity prior to the book discussion creates richer dialogue and deeper connections.
A Few Examples of the Busy Bees Icebreaker Activities
- "The Better Sister" is a thriller featuring two sisters and a suspicious murder. We designed a "match the murderer" game that asks guests to match notorious female murderers with their crimes...it is enlightening to say the least!
- "Commonwealth" features a mixed family with many children that often solve their own problems with no adult intervention. The classic "Rock, Paper, Scissors" is a perfect complement to the novel's themes!